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Helena Summer
United States
Приєднався 23 бер 2007
Hello,
I'm Helena Summer, and I help successful people over 40 create successful relationships ...or leave without regret.
On this channel, I share my best love, marriage, breakup, and relationship strategies to help you achieve a peaceful & playful connection.
Whether you’re navigating the challenges of midlife or seeking a deeper understanding of relationship dynamics, this is your haven for insights and inspiration. Watch my long-form videos featuring expert discussions on relationships, love, menopause, beauty, fitness, and more.
Ready to enhance your relationship experience?
Let's make your love life not just successful but delicious!
I'm available for podcasts, public speaking, customized private coaching, workshops, and VIP days.
Contact me!
📩 Email: Love@HelenaSummer.com
🔔Want to achieve a peaceful and playful connection in your relationships? Subscribe
www.youtube.com/@HelenaSummer/?sub_confirmation=1
I'm Helena Summer, and I help successful people over 40 create successful relationships ...or leave without regret.
On this channel, I share my best love, marriage, breakup, and relationship strategies to help you achieve a peaceful & playful connection.
Whether you’re navigating the challenges of midlife or seeking a deeper understanding of relationship dynamics, this is your haven for insights and inspiration. Watch my long-form videos featuring expert discussions on relationships, love, menopause, beauty, fitness, and more.
Ready to enhance your relationship experience?
Let's make your love life not just successful but delicious!
I'm available for podcasts, public speaking, customized private coaching, workshops, and VIP days.
Contact me!
📩 Email: Love@HelenaSummer.com
🔔Want to achieve a peaceful and playful connection in your relationships? Subscribe
www.youtube.com/@HelenaSummer/?sub_confirmation=1
Why are relationships so hard? And how to deal with them | HelenaSummer.com
What to do when relationships are hard? Why are they hard? Why can't everything just be easy?
We are exploring the idea of hardships in relationships and how to deal with them in a way that will enrich you for a long run.
Hint? Learn from hard. Learn with hard. And that's how you create the opposite. Every problem can make you into a stronger person if you so choose.
Easy, Tigress! Choose your growth and watch how you transform challenges in your relationship
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🔗 Stay Connected:
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👉Website: helenasummer.com/
✅ For Business Inquiries: Love @ HelenaSummer.com
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✅ About Helena Summer.
Hello, I'm Helena Summer, and I help successful people create successful relationships. On this channel, I share my best love, dating, and relationship strategies to help you achieve a peaceful & playful connection. Welcome to a place where love and success merge to transform your relationships.
Whether you’re navigating the challenges of midlife or seeking a deeper understanding of relationship dynamics, this is your haven for insights and inspiration. Watch my long-form videos featuring expert discussions on relationships, beauty, fitness, and more-tailored for those 40 and up.
Ready to enhance your relationship experience? Let's make your love life not just successful but delicious! I'm available for Happy to serve you!
For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:
📩 Email: Love@HelenaSummer.com
🔔Want to achieve a peaceful and playful connection in your relationships? Subscribe for 1:1 love coaching, VIP days, speaking engagements, podcasts, and workshops.
www.youtube.com/@HelenaSummer/?sub_confirmation=1
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⚠️Disclaimer: I do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.
Copyright Notice: This video and my UA-cam channel contain dialogue, music, and images that are the property of Helena Summer. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my UA-cam channel is provided.
© Helena Summer
We are exploring the idea of hardships in relationships and how to deal with them in a way that will enrich you for a long run.
Hint? Learn from hard. Learn with hard. And that's how you create the opposite. Every problem can make you into a stronger person if you so choose.
Easy, Tigress! Choose your growth and watch how you transform challenges in your relationship
🔔 ★WOMAN UP MANUAL★ 🔔
I personally picked 4 top strategies to help you create satisfying relationships with men, so you can get what you want.
Sign Up Now for FREE!
You’ll get a fun, easy-to-follow manual.
It comes with plenty of a-ha moments to guide you towards finally living your best life!
🔔 www.HelenaSummer.com/WomanUp 🔔
🔗 Stay Connected:
✅ HelenaSummer.com/Links✅
👉Facebook: LivDelicious
👉Instagram: helenasummer_lovecoach
👉Website: helenasummer.com/
✅ For Business Inquiries: Love @ HelenaSummer.com
=============================
✅ Recommended Playlists
👉 Practical Love Secrets
ua-cam.com/video/Lk2NxyVymtM/v-deo.html&pp=iAQB
👉 Relationship Problems
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ua-cam.com/video/8hkm9W-D9t8/v-deo.html
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ua-cam.com/video/8DBUR_za1M4/v-deo.html
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👉 Make Him Fall For You Again Even In Midlife: John Gray's Secrets To Love After 50 - FULL INTERVIEW
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👉 The 1 mistake that will destroy your relationship
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✅ About Helena Summer.
Hello, I'm Helena Summer, and I help successful people create successful relationships. On this channel, I share my best love, dating, and relationship strategies to help you achieve a peaceful & playful connection. Welcome to a place where love and success merge to transform your relationships.
Whether you’re navigating the challenges of midlife or seeking a deeper understanding of relationship dynamics, this is your haven for insights and inspiration. Watch my long-form videos featuring expert discussions on relationships, beauty, fitness, and more-tailored for those 40 and up.
Ready to enhance your relationship experience? Let's make your love life not just successful but delicious! I'm available for Happy to serve you!
For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:
📩 Email: Love@HelenaSummer.com
🔔Want to achieve a peaceful and playful connection in your relationships? Subscribe for 1:1 love coaching, VIP days, speaking engagements, podcasts, and workshops.
www.youtube.com/@HelenaSummer/?sub_confirmation=1
=================================
#Relationship #lovecoach #marriage #Loveproblem #Divorce #Relationshipsolutions #Menopause #hard
⚠️Disclaimer: I do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.
Copyright Notice: This video and my UA-cam channel contain dialogue, music, and images that are the property of Helena Summer. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my UA-cam channel is provided.
© Helena Summer
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I am not going to trust my driving whilst texting Helena,You have not seen my driving. I have to watch myself and the other driver's to. I like your message in this vid, that was interesting about Tokyo.
❤
thank you for your love <3
Thank you ❤❤
Always, my dear Carlina... always for you <3
What is the problem with him working always like that you are quiet
Exactly! So true!
😂 I absolutely love this beautiful lady
oh dear, thank you!
Honest truth ma'am!!💯
Thank you, sir!
He works hard so you don't have to, because he loves you. Just don't betray him.
That's why we need to respect men and create strong partnership
Unbelievable interview ❤️
thank you for watching. I'm so glad you put a comment, it takes a lot of courage to step up and share such things, right?
Very true, beautifully put.
Yes, thank you for noticing!
Yea why did I marry him. Get it.
Yes... it's something to ask yourself and refocus on love
Or money.. Either or.. good luck !!
@@bapao83 ha ha... that too
This interview is very deep, in many levels.
Thank you for acknowledging... yes, this story is deep and her transformation is incredibly powerful.
She is super brave, her spirit is super brave. Hope God or a good spirit take care all the children i the world.
YES!!! it took decades of healing and now she is helping other survivors. It's incredible.
Hope all this got cure some day, i hope all person in the hole world never have to live this situations.
You are so kind and sweet... yes, hope nobody ever has to go through it, she is working very hard to help heal and stop that.
Thank you for sharing.
My pleasure!
Thank you for sharing.
Thanks for listening
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No. People are horrible these days. The Internet proves it. Your channel sucks
Thank you for helping my sucky channel grow with your comment.
??? Telling your friend you are "done / leaving your husband" and then she gives you feedback that he is not that bad and to look at your entire situation is not gaslighting. She might trying to help you. Real feedback from a friend is very valuable. That said, if you are just venting as you say in the end of this clip...all good, just make that clear to your friend. Everyone needs friends they can vent to :)
Yes, real feedback is valuable if and when we want to hear it. We all know of women who are sticking to their abusive/alcoholic/adulterous situations and pretend it's all good. And the others who are in a good situation, pretending it's terrible. As you said, we need to make it clear that we want to vent and be heard.
So beautiful!!!!🎉
Nature is full of happy surprises, if we only listen 🙂
Love the hair!
Thank you for noticing 🙂it's a fresh cut!
Beautiful just like you 🌺
awwww... thank you... my friend told me not to post this one because my hair is not beautiful... but I posted it anyway 🙂
Hi , your out in nature in a beautiful place and your hair looks beautiful, your not walking out of the hair salon and going to a restaurant 😊, have a lovely day, cheers from Australia 🇦🇺 🩷.
@@brendanhayes5565 Hey Hey Australia!!! Thank you for introducing yourself and being so generous with your kind words 🙂
#replay yes its the hardest thing to do when it feels fake & that's when it takes a lot of effort. But man, it's challenging!!!! Thanks Helena. Ive also always say, life is short & what do we want to remember??? ❤
Yes, it will feel fake when we are too far apart, and you are right, life is too short for that!
Yep agree!!!! 😢
But... ONCE a cheater is NOT always a cheater. ONCE drunk is not alcoholic ONCE against the law is not always a criminal. Abuser though.... I wouldn't say the same
Easy: don´t have female friends.
Ha ha, you funny! Well, we can't avoid 50% of population, right? Plus, how else can we grow and learn?
💟💟💟 this. the sound was choppy, hard to hear the sentences finishing but i persevered through it all
Oops.. thank you for persisting... I didn't even know about the sound because it was a Live Stream. Gotta figure it out for the next time. Glad you liked it so much to stay with me :-)
helena, you're a powerhouse of talents, skills, wisdom and care for your clients. wow, you have so much to offer. <3
Thank you so much! I do care, and I'm glad you saw it :-)
Yes guaranteed ❤
Right? It happens!
Aloha Helena 😊 to me a luxury date is laying in the warm sun, on an uncrowded beach, looking for shells, wading in the ocean, feeling the soft sand in my toes, and the peaceful sound of the waves 🐬
Right? The nature, the magic of real word, that's the Luxury of the future you are enjoying now!
Money work the rest😂
Money is an amazing motivator, that's true!
Yes! Why is a crooked letter. Y
ha ha.. you are so creative :-)
Which of these 3 reasons you think are the most prominent in your experience?
Such great advice! Thank you Helena! So glad I found your channel.
Oh dear, I love that you said that. We have Tuesdays LIVE. Come along at 11 am Central so we can "officially" meet
Bio identical hormones
Yes, there are so many ways, so many things... and so much controversy about it
A smile is such a simple and powerful way to lift your mood!
Just a few seconds of smiling, helps so much, huh? Wishing you happy Birzday and Happy anniversary of the Heaven Journey for your dad <3
Please share your ideas for the next Love Hour Live and we will do it 🙂
Thank you for this live, it was so inspiring 🙏 Can you please talk about loving yourself/healing your heart and moving on healthily after a breakup? It’s been so hard to cope and I still find myself missing him and somewhere inside me hoping we’ll get back together, although I was the one deciding to move out when I finally couldn’t take the one-sidedness that I kept feeling anymore. It’s crazy. Thank you 💜
@@tiivisimonlatser Yes, dear, this is a real problem and a great question. I'll absolutely address it next Tuesday at 11 am CST. Stay tuned. In the meantime, please know, this too shall pass, but not yet... this is the time for self care, double up on it
You need to want to improve it. Some people don’t care anymore they don’t even want it to improve 😢
Yes, you are absolutely right! That's how people dump each other instead of improving... too hard to work on it, they say
I love this analogy Helena! ❤ I am so happy and grateful to hear you sharing this crucial message now on UA-cam!! 🎉May all women discover you and the wisdom of being anchored inside of our true feminine radiance. ❤
Thank you, dear, Yes! It's true how you noticed it. The power of a woman is to support and elevate each other. There is nothing more painful than the opposite. Much love <3
be brave be you.
He's wrong. Love is not a response to being loved, regardless of gender. Love is love, whether it is returned or not
Yes, you are right. There are SOOO many definitions of love and I'm glad you are bringing sincere conversation and your insights here. Thank you!
True
I love your elegant approach
Thank you for noticing... The opposite is always available for those who choose. I worked hard to overcome my father and learn to love and respect men. One simple statement like "You have right... and I'm uncomfortable" can bring out the best of men :-)
Comment below. I might just make a video to address that problem for you.
What is one of the problems you’re facing in your relationship right now?
Comment below. I might just make a video to address that problem for you.
What is your biggest takeaway from this video? Comment below.
Do you sometimes struggle with "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" situation? comment here and let's talk!
Share which of these 3 myths you noticed most often in your relationships? Comment here and let's have a convo 🙂
He has every right to do that? 🤷♀️
Yes. He has legal rights. You can't call the police and say "Hello 911, my man is looking at other women, help!" So when you acknowledge his right, you establish a connection. Then you say how you feel and ask for the behavior change. Thats how people bond. You also have a right to leave, if you so desire
Actually a man who drives carefully and slowly is a big turn off. Because it feels like he is feminine.
Well, if a man does anyything in a soft, mushy, uncertain and self-conscious way, its a big turn off
it feels to me like it's just a real man, not an immature guy who will put my life at risk over road rage or some silly thing like that lol
@@sunbeam9222 hm.... I hope you never experience that
In my experience with sex-positive environments, creating a safe space is just a pre-requisite for feeling sexy for most people but women in particular.
Yeah, thank you - that's exactly what he was talking about... safety is the name of the game, great minds agree!🙂
🤔 0:20 Sure Love is a 'response', but it's not conditionally dependent on having some 'other' person, place object or thing _external_ to me deliver 'value' to me in any way; or validate that I have value to them. That is conditional and transactional. Narcissistic at its extreme. IMO, "Feeling Love" is primarily a response to one's _internally generated filter or _*_perception_* of whatever that external 'thing' _Means_ to us (which we can change and tweak at any time). It is always the self in response to the Self - first. And so can only ever always be this. "Love" - is the _STATE_ of choosing to be Loving, and rather than being 'conditional response' of how that external thing shows up, it is deeply grounded in Acceptance, Respect and Free-dominion of heart.
You are right. It sounds transactional... and if you look at real-life interactions, it actually is. As John Gray talks about how we feel loved, be it through food or the other 5 love languages, which is all about giving and receiving something (compliments, acts of service, gifts, time, or physical touch). I like your politically correct idea, and yet, in real life, even an innocent child or a puppy feels loved when given to, provided for, and taken care of externally. If I'm choosing to be loving, then my acts will cause the response of feeling loved in others, right? So basically, both you and John are right 🙂
Love is ...I Cor 13
@@Ina-Lori-tm2zh I Cor 13.... what do you mean by that?
@@HelenaSummer what love means according to Bible (God's Word)
@@Ina-Lori-tm2zh Oh yes, the "Love is patient... " verse... <3 Best ever!